The Little Things

I’m sitting on the train that will take me from the hustle and bustle of Sydney to the blessed quiet of Ben Lomond over the course of eight creaking, swaying hours. I’ve got music on my iPad, my iPhone connects me to the world if I so desire, my Kindle boasts the complete works of Stephen King, and I’ve even got my laptop and about a thousand movies if I get bored.

Yet, in spite of all these modern conveniences and their convenient distractions, it’s out the window I find myself staring. The familiar glow of my Apple branded time-wasters is forgotten as I stare (longingly?) at the brilliant muddy green of the Brisbane Water and the march of Eucalyptus trees that stops at the very edge of the waters as if afraid to step into the doubtlessly cold river.

Sail boats skit across the water beneath a sky of brilliant blue, and the occasional glint of silver hints at the presence of million dollar homes with multi-million dollar views.

It’s a trip I’ve made at least two dozen times in my life, yet that view and what it represents never gets old. Even this close to Australia’s biggest city, the weight of this country’s eons old beauty strikes me and leaves me dumbfounded. It’s entrancing in the way impossibly puffy clouds are reflected in the water, and the way the dense greens and browns and dusky reds of the Australian bush hint at the ageless tenacity of this place that birthed me into the world.

I pause from my bare-faced admiration to check if my fellow passengers are seeing what I’m seeing. Are they as grateful for the banks of fantastically shaped clouds that hang over the horizon or the way the sun streaks the water with gold?

But most of them are staring straight down at their phones – their ears distracted by mp3 and their eyes glued to Facebook or YouTube or the procession of pretty faces on Tinder.

I look outside and I wonder what it might feel like to settle down on the grass and let the late winter sun lull me into a mid-morning nap. I imagine what it might have been like to grow up on these shores and spend my summers out on (or in) the water. I long to be a part of the scenery that rolls by unremarked, rather than an impassive observer to it all.

So often in travel, it’s the little things and our ability to appreciate them that bring us the most joy. Sure, the thrill of seeing, touching, and experiencing a landmark is thrilling – as are are the very tangible things such as eating exotic foods, meeting new people, and checking items off a list we’ve made – but, to my mind, it’s being able to stop and appreciate just how lucky we are that lies at the very heart of travel.

In built up, often frustrating China; it was in the way cherry blossoms dusted the too crowded streets around Xuanwu Lake in pink, and the rare occasions when the sun would push through the oppressive pall of smog and seemed to burn away the stink and noise of the city.

In South Korea, it was the wooded mountains that rose above and from the very heart of the heavily urbanised cities that cover most of the country. The mist-shrouded pine trees on a winter morning and the weekend exodus of city folk to the jagged stone and tangled undergrowth.

In the mountains I call home, it’s the seemingly infinite sprawl of stars against a backdrop of deep blue, unfathomable black, and enchanting purple – all of it strewn across the ghost that is the Milky Way.

The sun sets over Uralla as the train rolls on towards Armidale.
The sun sets over Uralla as the train rolls on towards Armidale.

There’s poetry in all things, and too often it’s easy to become caught up in the shiny distractions we’ve created for ourselves as a kind of barrier against silence and moments of reflection and appreciation.

Are we that afraid of realizing the size and scope of the world we live in and our own miniscule, almost non-existent place in it that we can’t bear to consider it? If so, we’re missing out.

Exciting Things to Come in Australia

Being ‘home’ in Australia doesn’t mean an end to my adventures by any means, and I’m already filling up my six months of family time with all manner of epic journeys.

Fresh off a battery recharging but wallet depleting two weeks here in Sydney packed with catch-ups, bachelor party beers, and seeing my best friend tie the knot with his lovely bride – I’m headed home to northern NSW tomorrow to see my family and start focusing on my novel, Dustbowl.

What have I got in store for you?

Wine and Romance

Coming up in late September, I’ve been invited along to be a travel ambassador for the Broke Fordwich region of the Hunter Valley. Advertising itself as the tranquil side of the popular Hunter Valley wine region, I’m excited to see what the region from which my ancestors come has to offer up close and personal.

I’ll be joining two Sydney food bloggers, Weekend Food Escapes and Next Stop: Food. I’m really excited to get to see more of my own backyard while also sampling what Broke Fordwich has to offer so that I can tell you all about it!

I’ll be sure to tell you more about this exciting adventure as it gets closer.

Exploring the New England

One of the best things about my best friend’s wedding after the obvious reasons was the opportunity to reconnect with the friends I made in high school. With so many of us scattered across Australia and the world, it was a rare chance to get the old gang back together.

One of this gang, the irrepressible ‘Schmo’, still lives in our home town and we had a long chat at the reception about some local excursions we could do to places such as Dorrigo, Washpool, and Bald Knob. These road trips won’t just let me get back in touch with nature after two and a half years in industrialised China, but they’ll also give me a chance to road test the Yakima roof rack that the company were kind enough to let me try out.

I’ve written in the past about the many things to do in New England, and it will be fun to get to do some of them while I’m home.

The Return to Green Valley Farm

A few years ago, I visited the strangest theme park in Australia, Green Valley Farm. The place holds a lot of fond memories from my childhood, and my good friend obviously agrees with me – as he’s doing the Australian leg of his wedding there! Two days of riding the water slide, chilling out in the gardens over a few beers, and catching up with old friends sounds fantastic!

The towering water slide at Green Valley Farm is heaven on a hot summer day.
The towering water slide at Green Valley Farm is heaven on a hot summer day.

Safari in Tanzania

Perhaps the most exciting upcoming adventures is the opportunity to take a four day safari in Tanzania with Shadows of Africa tours. I’m still having to pinch myself when I think about the fact I’ll get to see giraffes, lions, hippos, elephants, cheetahs and more in the wild. It’s a life long travel dream, and I cannot wait!

After the safari, I’m also hoping to sneak a few days of R&R in on Zanzibar. I can’t think of many more beautiful places to spend my 31st birthday!

Queensland!

Two of the best people I met in China were Courtney and Colin – an Aussie girl and her American boyfriend. They’ve since relocated to rural Queensland and I’m looking forward to catching up with them over a few beers or wines sometime in October.

With Queensland right on my doorstep, I’m also hoping to see more of Australia’s sunshine state. The theme parks of the Gold Coast, the beautiful beaches of the Sunshine Coast, and the opportunity to add a few dives to my logbook all make Queensland a tempting proposition.

The Asian Nations Cup

I don’t comment on it often, but I’m a die hard football fanatic when it comes to international football. Another of my bucket list aspirations is to see the Socceroos play in the World Cup, and next January’s Asian Nations Cup will be a perfect warm up. With nations such as Japan, China, South Korea, Palestine, Iraq, and Iran coming downunder to contest Asia’s top international cup – my brothers and I are hoping to see a few games in Sydney, Brisbane, and Newcastle.

The Tamworth Country Music Festival

I first fell in love with country music while I was dating a girl from Idaho. Spending six weeks traveling around the Pacific North West with her indoctrinated me into the church of Brad Paisley, Garth Brooks, George Strait, Luke Bryan, Josh Perry, and many others.

Tamworth’s annual Country Music Festival might not boast the above names, but it’s a showcase of Australian and international country music right on my door-step (Tamworth is just two hours from my home town). I’m hoping that 2015 might just be the year where I finally make it to the region’s most well known festival.

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As you can see, I’ve got a lot to look forward to in the coming months – and that’s not including the obvious things like meeting my beautiful niece and nephew, catching up with my brothers, spending Christmas with my family, and the many other things that come with being home.

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Budget travel doesn’t mean you can’t have a memorable experience

Can you imagine how dull life would be without traveling? You would never be able to experience life differently and explore new and wonderful places. It’s a sad picture, and such a lifestyle seems monotonous, right? Traveling makes life so much better, and it’s an investment you make in yourself. It’s an opportunity to expand your horizons and discover new cultures, landscapes, and perspectives, which enriches you in ways you never thought possible. The good news is that you don’t need a lot of money in your bank account to travel to exciting places. You can gift yourself a memorable trip even if your resources are small! We’re here to give you valuable tips on traveling on a budget, so read on!

Get travel insurance

This is a crucial step to take if you want to save money on your trip. While it may seem like an extra expense, travel insurance is, in fact, a worthy investment, as it can save you money if you face an emergency (you can read about my non-insured travel personal disaster here). There are no guarantees that your trip will be smooth and free of hazards. You may go through an unfortunate experience during the trip or before it. For instance, your baggage may get lost, or you may get sick. You can’t prevent these things, so it is always better to be prepared for the unexpected, and getting travel insurance can help.

Plan in advance

There is nothing wrong with spontaneity as long as you have money for it. But planning in advance is a good idea if you want to travel more affordably. It will help you determine the duration of your trip, the route you want to take, as well as how much money you will spend on food, accommodation and entertainment. Obviously, this doesn’t mean you should be tight and strict with your choices – the goal is to eliminate unexpected spending from the equation as much as possible.

Book early

Booking in advance is another way to spend less on your trip. Avoid a last-minute rush so your long-awaited vacation can go as you want without being forced to extend it. Instead, book your flight, accommodation and other necessary services earlier to prevent such incidences. Airlines generally provide discounts to people who book their flight some time before the departure date. Plus, during peak seasons, the transaction fees and exchange rates are higher, so you can save some bucks by booking early. For example, Boston logan airport parking is quite expensive, and central parking can cost more than $50 daily, while economy parking costs $26. Fortunately, it is possible to get lower rates by using specific services. Besides money, booking in advance will also save time as you won’t have to wait in long lines, and thus, you will be able to enjoy a hassle-free trip.

Travel light

Traveling light can help you reduce luggage expenses. Airports require additional fees for heavy baggage, which can quickly add up, and you may spend more than expected for your trip. To avoid this, pack only the essentials and consider layering your clothing. If possible, you should aim to have luggage light enough to keep it by your side. That way, you ensure your luggage won’t be left behind accidentally. Traveling with fewer items doesn’t only save money, but it also makes it easier to get around.

Look for special discounts and offers

Consider staying informed about special discounts and offers for a more affordable trip. Suppose you’re planning a trip in the next few months. In that case, take the time to search for airlines that provide discounted rates to those who book their flights months or weeks earlier. Discounts allow you to get the best possible deals, and the only thing you must do is plan ahead. For example, JFK parking rates can be pretty high, but you can use off-site parking and save money on your trip. Compare different prices and then choose the best option and book online. Offers and discounts allow you to reap huge benefits in terms of an affordable trip, so make sure to take advantage of them.

Avoid peak season

Some people can only travel during the peak season when the demand is high. This greatly benefits the travel industry, which takes advantage of the situation by increasing the prices of different services and activities. Fortunately, it is possible to avoid spending a lot of money by not traveling during those times. You will enjoy your vacation more as the crowd will be smaller, and thus, there will be short lines at the airports. Moreover, during the off-peak season, the weather is generally more pleasant, meaning you can have fun outdoors as much as you want! On top of that, the services are more personalized and of higher quality in the low season.

Eat local

Experiencing new cuisines is one thing many people love about traveling. But eating on a budget is not easy! The cuisines can be so alluring that you may forget to stay within your budget’s constraints. So, is there a way to save money while delighting your taste buds with delicious foods? Luckily, yes! You can do so by eating local food. Instead of going to luxurious restaurants, opt for eateries outside the city’s center. The food served at these places is often less expensive, and you can enjoy a wonderful environment. You can find the best eateries by checking out websites, reading the reviews, or directly asking bartenders or passengers.

Get around with public transport

Using public transportation is a great way to save money when traveling. That’s because buses, trains and subways are less expensive than renting a car or taking a taxi – especially in cities where parking tends to be costly. Plus, public transportation is also more eco-friendly, helping reduce air pollution. So, using it isn’t only good for your wallet but also the environment. Carpooling is another option to consider, as many apps and websites are available to help you find others who want to share a ride. This can help split the cost of gas and tolls, which can quickly add up during a long trip.

Last words

Traveling on a budget may seem challenging, but it is definitely doable with a bit of experience. Follow the tips above, and you will have a wonderful trip without breaking the bank.

 

The Perils of Time Travel

You’ve been looking behind you, Martin. Try looking ahead – The Twilight Zone – Walking Distance (1959)

The Perils of Time Travel

My recent return to Australia has stirred up all manner of feelings from the muddy bottom of the river that is the inexorable and always (worryingly) accelerating current of my life.

A big part of that has been the fact I find myself back in the very same bed in the same room of the same apartment in which I spent 2010 – a year that, while maybe not the most eventful of my life – was certainly the closest I’ve had to a life that felt complete and ‘real’. Sharing my life with the most significant of my former significant others; I had a job I enjoyed and excelled at, friends, new hobbies such as rock climbing and learning Spanish, travel, spending money, and I was the healthiest I’d ever been.

That isn’t to say that life since has not been better in many ways. I’ve visited seven countries in the years since I uprooted myself from my comfortable Sydney life. I’ve lived in China where I had all manner of new experiences. I’ve dated and romanced and one-night stood (standed?) and sowed those fabled wild oats I heard so much about as a kid.

But standing in the doorway to a bedroom into which I entered in a time in my life that was happier in some ways was still a surreal experience. I found myself fondly remembering weekly journeys to The Counter for custom burgers or our fortnightly Thai Face home delivery orders.

I recalled weekend trips to go kayaking or surfing or take photography courses.

I remembered the Haunted Housewarming and the Hobo’s Ball, my Sexy Party, a 4th of July BBQ, and even a Willie Wonka themed birthday party.

I remembered friends who have long since slipped not only from memory, but even from the annals of Facebook.

Running the Manly 5k or the City 2 Surf and being stunned that I was capable of doing either…

I don’t want to give the confused impression that this feeling was in any way about missing an ex-girlfriend. While I appreciate the time I spent with the woman in question, there’s been no regret on my part about the decision to go our separate ways. This was missing a time in my life, rather than any one person – however significant.

More overwhelming than the sense of gratitude I have for these experiences was a sadness in knowing that they are far behind me now, and that the people in those memories (and indeed, the person I was in those memories) are ghosts now. As dead and lost to me as any childhood recollection.

It was knowing that, even though I’d come home, I will never really be able to truly come home.

The ‘Travel’ in Time Travel

Of course, it’s not just returning home that can stir up these mixed feelings of nostalgia, gratitude, and sadness.

I’ve long said that 2008/2009 were probably the two best years of my life.

Living in South Korea, I finally came out of my shell. I was no longer monosyllabic ‘Chris Bush’ with his nervousness and awkwardness – I was “C.W.B” – ‘that guy’ who most of Gwangju’s expats new and (I think) liked. I discovered that travel was something that made me far happier than anything I’d done before, and while there were certainly heartbreaks and low points in that time – my experience was almost overwhelmingly positive. It was transformative in the best of ways.

Late last year, I returned to South Korea for the first time since my midnight run in 2011. While it was great to eat the foods I’d loved and to re-experience the culture that introduced me to travel, it was also sobering to wander through old haunts.

The bars of Gwangju and Busan hadn’t changed much, but the people who had made them feel so warm had largely moved on. Were those the same places which had spawned so many fond memories for me? Or just vague impersonations of the Speakeasy or Thursday Party where a younger Chris had made gradual steps towards being who I am today?

Is it ever wise to return to a place where you had a fantastic time? Or does doing so only remind us that – try as we might – we’ll never be able to bottle the magic that youth and (perhaps more importantly) rosy-eyed hindsight attribute to these places?

Is it these places that have lost their magic? Or is it the fact that it is we who have changed that prevents it from being the same place it had once been for us?

You Can Never Go Home

I guess what I’m trying to get at with all of this meandering prose is that, coming home after time away or revisiting a treasured place, there’s an immense amount of pressure for it to be as amazing, entertaining, and generally life-changing as it was last time around.

Of course, it can never be that. The person you were when these new experiences wowed you no longer exists. They’re no less evanescent than the memories you keep in your head. They died in the moment immediately after the one you’re remembering, and no amount of nostalgia is going to bring them back.

In WalkingDistance,an episode of the classic Twilight Zone, the main character returns to his home town both physically and temporally. He is back in the town as he remembered it, and although he is warmed by these memories, he finds he has no place in that time anymore. Those experiences belong to the younger him, and he can’t have them for himself.

Speaking with his father, he is given the advice I quoted at the head of this article.

Martin: I thought so, Pop. I’ve been living on a dead run, and I was tired. And one day I knew I had to come back here. I had to come back and get on the merry-go-round, and eat cotton candy, and listen to a band concert. I had to stop and breathe, and close my eyes and smell, and listen.

Robert: I guess we all want that. Maybe when you go back, Martin, you’ll find that there are merry-go-rounds and band concerts where you are. Maybe you haven’t been looking in the right place. You’ve been looking behind you, Martin. Try looking ahead. 

There comes a time where you have to let go of that daydream that someday things will be as good as they were. Not just because the passage of time smooths out all things and makes them seem better in hindsight, but more so because looking back stops you from truly moving forward.

There might not be any Sexy Parties or 5ks or weekend rock climbing classes in my life ever again. My days of late nights at the Speakeasy and hungover galbi meals may well be done too.

But there are merry-go-rounds and band concerts where I am. They’re trips to Tanzania and getting to know my niece and nephew. They’re new experiences with old friends and knowing that there’s nothing tragic about the passage of time. After all, if time hadn’t passed, I’d never have had 2008 or 2010. Who knows what wonderful years lay ahead of me?

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Have you ever returned to a place you loved and found that it wasn’t the happy homecoming you had hoped it would be?

Coming Home to the Land Downunder

Final Days in China

Here comes my first post as an Australian resident since early 2012. Hard to believe how much I’ve seen and done in the almost thirty months I’ve been away. I’ve fallen into and out of love, taught in three cities in China, visited seven countries, and checked off a whole swathe of bucket list items.

Farewelling Nanjing was not easy, and the week of frantic packing, preparing, and farewelling that followed. My pie in the sky daydreams of sleeping in, playing video games, and churning out posts for Aussie on the Road were dashed by last minute preparations and, more pleasantly, dinners and lunches with people who were eager to see me before I left.

Good times with dear friends at my farewell in Nanjing. Photo by Rosemary Doyle.
Good times with dear friends at my farewell in Nanjing. Photo by Rosemary Doyle.

Like leaving South Korea, leaving China felt like laying to rest the person I had become in my time there. I bade farewell to Chris the party planner and Chris the guy girls could swing dance with. I put Chris the ‘expert’ on western food in Nanjing on the shelf, and packed the souvenirs and photos I have as proof of my passage into a bag knowing that I’ll never be those things again.

It’s a sad process, but one I’ve done before and I know I’ll do again. Part of what makes this expat lifestyle I lead so addictive is knowing that I get to start again each time I move someplace new.

I’m refining the person I am country by country. Maybe (and I know this is the black dog speaking) one day I’ll even like the person I am.

The Journey

My last hours in China were spent in Shanghai – the city I’d go to when I wanted to feel like I wasn’t in China anymore. I spent my time either chilling out in the hotel I’d splashed out on or having farewell dinner and drinks with a few friends who call the city home .

After two and a half years of avoiding Chinese food as often as possible, I had a delicious Yunnan feast as my final meal in China. If I’d lived in Dali or Kunming, I’m sure I’d have had an entirely different opinion of Chinese cuisine.

A feast of Yunnan dishes including lotus roots, fried goat cheese, buckwheat pancakes, and spicy cauliflower.
A feast of Yunnan dishes including lotus roots, fried goat cheese, buckwheat pancakes, and spicy cauliflower.

Of course, it wouldn’t have been China without one final bit of frustration. I loved a lot about my time in the country, but there was always this residual desire to occasionally drop to the ground, throw my arms out Platoon style, and shout ‘Fuck you, China’.

Finding my already late 1.30am flight delayed until 3am was a fitting farewell from a country that has both frustrated and fascinated me. A whiled away my last hours in China texting well-wishers and watching pro wrestling huddled over my laptop in the ghost town that is Pudong Airport after midnight.

I flew home with AirAsia, and that’s an experience I’ll comment on in a future entry. It was… interesting.

Coming Home

Touching down in Sydney was a surreal feeling. While I did come home briefly in 2013 for a recharge and a family vacation in Queensland; I attacked that trip with the knowledge that it was a temporary reprieve from my life in China.

Shuffling bleary eyed from my plane and through immigration – I found myself hit with the enormity of my present situation:

For the first time in almost three years I am unemployed and without any real plan for what comes next. I am without the support network I’d built in China or the places that had made the place feel like ‘home’. As excited as I had been to leave China, I felt the vastness of the unknown wash over me as I handed over my passport.

The immigration officer not only chatted with me about China, but we shared a moment of fond reminiscence about running around Xuanwu Lake in Nanjing. It’s rare to meet somebody who has heard of China’s former southern capital, so to chat about my favourite part of the city was strange.

Once through customs and with my baggage finally, blessedly dumped onto a cart – I took some time to get my phone set up. In another case of kismet, the girl selling me my new SIM is planning to go to Shanghai in 2015 to study. Even after I’d left, China was touching my life.
I wasn’t sure whether I should be smiling or crying as I stood in the Arrivals Lounge and contemplated the past spread out behind me and the future – shrouded in mystery as it is – sprawled out in front of me as a blank canvas. It felt at once both terrifying and amazing.

Soon, my airport limousine from Blacklane Limousines was there to pick me up and whisk me off to the home of my friend, Dr. Grant. It was a place I too had called home back in 2010 (in fact, I started this site from the very table I now write this entry from), and there was a sense of having come full circle as I staggered into my old bedroom after a welcome home meal of pizza and beer.

A welcome home package from my dear friend, Dr. Grant!
A welcome home package from my dear friend, Dr. Grant!

The Perils of Time Travel

I’ve got a post coming (hopefully tomorrow) about what I like to call the Perils of Time Travel. I’ll be discussing the sad fact that you can never truly go home, and that revisiting places where you’ve previously been happy is often a sobering mistake.In the last year I’ve revisited two places where I was immensely happy – South Korea and, now, the place I called home for what I still believe to have been the happiest year of my life.

Your Say

What have been your experiences and emotions when coming home after a long time away? Have you got any tricks for coping with the inevitable reverse culture shock?